Empowerment Through Change

Stress in Small Businesses

Friday, August 12th, 2011

Hi everyone I am writing this while I am on holiday so it is going to be short.

I have just been chatting with some great guys at the bar who where talking about how difficult they are finding running their business because they always seem to have low energy and are finding it very difficult in getting focused and sleep.

I of course was very interested in what these strangers where saying.

What I noticed was these four people where supposed to be on holiday relaxing but they were all very tense and far from achieving relaxation.

I explained that this was my area of expertise and discussed with them the importance of taking a more proactive approach against stress in their business, would improve their overall performance and wellbeing.

You see the feeling of low energy, lack of sleep, poor concentration and being more susceptible to bugs/viruses is classic signs of stress.

Yet this is overlooked when businesses want to increase performance especially in small businesses, but having the courage to acknowledge and act on these difficulties you will improve your overall performance.

If you are a business owner you need to develop skills to manage and reduce your stress because if you are not working at your optimal performance neither is your business, and lets face it as business owners challenges are never far away , but if you want to be effective in your business and create the success that you believe your company can achieve, you need to be in the best physical and mental health possible.

The problem is that when you have not got your thoughts and emotions aligned and working for you, you are in a constant state of conflict, this conflict will be effecting both your physical and mental state.

In order to do that you need to speak to experts so you can unleash your potential both mentally and physically. Now generally when I talk to my clients about this the first excuse is time, well I am sorry, but I do not buy that, we all have the same 24 hours, the different is how effective we are with that time and how honest we are about the excuses we make to avoid dealing with these challenges.

In the book “the Inner game of stress” it talks about knowing when to ‘gear up’ or ‘gear down’, and how people see gearing down as a luxury, the problem with this is that gearing down is as important as gearing up. Think about driving a car up a hill you will get to the point where the cars momentum is decreasing and no matter how hard you put your foot on the accelerator the car will start to slow down, you wouldn’t go up a gear, you would drop a gear or two because when you drop a gear you may slow down, but you increase the power of the engine and your momentum increases.

You need to do the same, it’s not always the best strategy to force yourself to perform, in fact your brain does not respond well under this pressure it needs a lower gear and by doing this you will reap the benefits and accomplish your tasks quicker making you more effective.

You see when you are relaxed you are able to think better and be more creative, you have more energy because your sleeping better and your immune system is more effective and benefiting every area of you life.

Are you ready to live the life you deserve?

Then perhaps you need to re-look at how you are managing your stress.

Owning a business is supposed to be fun, after all is that not why you started your business because you were passionate about what you do, and you believe you can do it better and of course you wanted to be the boss.

I hope you have a great weekend and remember to drop a gear or two.

Thanks

Geoff

Stress at the Airport

Saturday, August 6th, 2011

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I am currently sitting in an airport with my family ready to start our holiday and a message has flashed up informing us of a two and a half hour delay.

I am looking around at all the hustle and bustle that is going on around me and I can see a massive amount of stress, this should be a time of relaxation but it doesn’t seem to be, people are looking at the departure board and seeing there flights delayed and there is a huff and a disappointing sigh, a drop of the shoulders and then a walk back to let there family know the bad news.

The funny thing is they are back about 15mins later and they repeat the process all over again.

Why do we do this?

The knock on effects of this action could last the day for them. Let’s look at a scenario I am currently watching.

There is a family of four they look around my families age the kids are about 10 and 12 and the parents around 35ish. They arrived all in good spirits laughing and smiling then, the mum looked at the departure board to find the flight delayed she swears and stomps back to tell the family, she has done this 3 times in the last 30mins, the board has informed them of a delay of 160mins, so why does she keep coming back anyway she goes back and complains to her husband, her temperament is fraid not one member of the family can change the situation but she has started shouting at the kids and the husband is getting it in the neck, now off course the husband is now in a mood and the couple are not talking to each other, the kids are playing some card game and laughing but they have just been told off for being loud and clowning around, this might sound familiar.

How long this lasts depends on how good the family are at processing there emotions, they might not talk to each other for the whole day who knows.

Here’s the same event but this is how my family are dealing with it, we are waiting for the same flight. My wife is reading some woman’s magazine (you know the ones that seem to enjoy taking photos of celebraties doing normal things like sweat when it’s hot) but hey she enjoys it, my kids are playing top trumps and they are armed with there iPod and PSP’s should they get bored, I of course am writing a blog listening to some relaxing music, we’re all looking forward to the holiday and talking about what we are going to do when we get there.

We are all relaxed and just waiting for our flight to be called, our response to this event is very different to the other family therefore our outcome is to, we are relaxed the other family are stressed and ignoring each other.

When you are going to the airport make sure you are prepared for possible delays take something to read or listen to, if your kids are of an age where they can entertain themselves make sure they are equipt with everything they need. Of course this is a little more challenging with young children and you have to make sure you have things to entertain them to or of course there is traditional games like eye spy for several hours.

One of the other ways to relax its to learn a breathing exercise I have a great app on my iPhone which can help with relaxing using breathing exercises. This is because when you get stressed your rate of breathing increases and this changes your physiology, when you slow your breathing down it will start to relax you.

Also if you know the flight is delayed don’t go to the departure board every 10 miniutes, what’s the point you know it’s delayed.

Anyway I am going to stop now after all I am on my holiday, the only problem is I do not have a spell check and I am dyslexic so I am sorry for any errors

So take care

Geoff

dyslexic and proud look on the bright side I might of created a whole new version of the english language